Watch What You Drink!

Written and Read by Dr. Russ L'HommeDieu
Did you know that one of the worst things you can do when your'e trying to lose weight is drink calories. 

A tremendous source of excess Calories come from high Calorie drinks.  Considering that most of those Calories have no nutritional value, your body can easily do without them. To make matters worse, research shows that drinking extra calories also makes you eat more. In a study at Penn State University, people who ate a lunch with a 150 Calorie beverage ate more food than the group that enjoyed a Calorie-free beverage. By the way, the BEST Calorie free beverage is water. 

            If you are in the habit of drinking high calorie drinks, you are probably racking up an astonishing amount of Calories. Although most drinks are labeled, the labels can be misleading. Each bottle of soda that you drink has 100 calories per serving but wait-- there are generally 2.5 servings in every bottle. So an ordinary bottle of soda  250 calories! What about the average “large” soft drink from a fast food chain? A large fountain drink from McDonalds packs 310 Calories. All of those Calories are from pure, refined, SUGAR!!! How much sugar? 86 grams of sugar per serving-- 86 grams of sugar-- 86 grams! Are you kidding me? No, I checked it three times. 86 grams of sugar is the same as eating 18 teaspoons of sugar!! Do you want fries with that? (570 Calories for a large) Can I Supersize that for you?  Almost 900 Calories from just the drink and the fries and I have not even discussed the “entrée” yet.

            OK. Soda is bad. Got it! What if you are not a soda drinker? Only “healthy” drinks for you, right? Good work. You should be safe. Try again. A glass of 100% pure, not from concentrate, orange juice has Calories too.  If you were to fill that large McDonalds soda cup with OJ, it would have 409 Calories and 76grams of sugar. Even if you don’t drink that much OJ all at once, it is important to understand OJ is not that much different than soda. It has almost as much sugar and it has MORE Calories! Think about it. How many oranges do you have to squeeze to get a glass of juice? Actually, drinking a 12oz glass of orange juice is just like eating about 6 full-sized oranges. Worse yet, when you squeeze juice, you throw away all the fiber nature packaged the fruit with!

            Are sports drinks OK? Don’t kid yourself. Calories are Calories and sugar is sugar. When in doubt, read the label. When you read the label, start with the serving size and then go to the Calories. If you are going to drink the whole bottle, you need to multiply the Calories by the serving size. It is just that simple.

 According to this Gatorade nutritional information label, this product has 50 Calories. If you look closer, you will notice that there are 4 servings in the container. That means that there are 200 Calories in this bottle. With 14 grams of sugar per serving, that means all of those calories are from sugar. In fact, if you calculate the calories from the sugar information on the label (14g of sugar at 4 Calories per gram times 4 servings) you actually get 224 Calories. I am not sure how those calories fell off the label but I can assure you they will not disappear from you so easily. 

             The sad fact is that most people just don’t think about the calories they drink. According to Dr. Brian Wansink, author of “Mindless Eating:” “In every beverage study, we conducted; people underestimate the calories they drink -- usually by about 30%.  It doesn't matter whether its soft drinks, milk, juice, or wine, although we found vending machines pose the biggest danger.” To help people see the caloric truth about drinks, Dr. Wansink developed the "10 -- 20 " rule of thumb.  As part of this rule, he divides drinks into two broad categories: “Thin Drinks” and “Thick Drinks.” He describes thin drinks as things like soft drinks, punch, juice, and milk while a thick drink is more like shakes and smoothies. As a general rule, he says figure thin drinks at about 10 calories per ounce and thick drinks are about 20 calories per ounce.  This rule could be a great running start but, it can also be another way of justifying your way into way too many calories. For instance, the “Love It” sized fruit “Strawberry Bananza” smoothie at Cold Stone Creamery is low fat, made of fruit and is packin’ 600 Calories.  At about 18 ounces, that is just about 20 Calories per ounce. However, the same sized drink made with regular strawberry ice cream would have a full 1200 calories!! In this case, if you used the 10-20 rule; you would be telling yourself a 600 Calorie deception. Think about this, if you were to indulge one 600 calorie deception like this a day, you will gain 63 pounds a year just from the calories you denied drinking! So be Alert! 
This caution does not stop with soda, juice and ice cream shakes. It also includes what you put into your coffee. Think about the calories that coffee creamer and sugar adds to your coffee. When you have an idea of how many Calories you think that will add to your daily intake, add 30%. Remember, it only takes 3500 excess Calories to gain a pound. When you think about the amount of calories that are in sugar and creamer, you could easily lose 5 to 10 pounds this year by drinking black coffee or unsweetened tea instead. 

Turning your intentions into RESULTS!

Do you intend to get into better shape? You intend to lose weight? Do you intend to eat healthier? Well, you know what they say, “The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.”  While you may intend to do all these things, your intentions alone will not get you very far. As a matter of fact, when it comes to your health, each day that you only think about getting better is actually a day of getting worse.

Don’t get me wrong, intentions are great but, only when they are followed by action. To truly reach any worthwhile goal, you need to commit. A true commitment is non-negotiable. It is something you just do.

Easier said than done, right?  I hear ya! I have plenty of unfulfilled intentions. What if I could show you some techniques that will help you transform some of your intentions into commitments? That would be cool, right? This post is going to help you to do just that so that you can begin to commit to a better and more remarkable life!

The first step in the process is that you have a vision of what this commitment will do for you. If you want to lose weight, imagine what that will look and feel like. Create a picture in your mind of what life will be like when you achieve your goal. Then mentally run through a day in that life. The more compelling your vision, the more it will pull you toward it. Trust me, it is far better to be drawn to a goal than to be pushed to it. One caution though. You need to make the vision believable. The only way this process works is if you know with all your heart that you can achieve your vision.

   

Once you are connected to a compelling vision, you need to get down to business. This is where a lot of people get bogged down.

Over the past two weeks, I witnessed Karen go from a person that just talked about getting in shape to a person that rides her bike 10 miles a day, every day, before work. How did that happen? How was she able to put aside all those great excuses and “just do it.” I mean she had all the classic reasons NOT to do this. She has a demanding job, she has no time, it’s really hot, she has exercise induced asthma. . . you get the idea. Yet, somehow, she overcame all these excuses and has ridden over 100 miles since the 30^th of June.

Her secret was a public challenge. When she rides, she uses an iPhone app called MapMyRide. The app tracks her speed and mileage. The app then saves them the MapMyRide website under Karen’s profile. As an added bonus, with the touch of a button, Karen can also share her workout to Facebook. This way all of her friends can see how well she is doing. It also motivates her to get on her bike every morning because she does not want to look lazy on Facebook.  

As an extra motivation, MapMyRide also sponsors challenges.  On June 30^th, Karen accepted the” Le Tour Challenge” to cycle 100 miles in 23 days. The challenge gives cyclists around the world the opportunity to compete against other cyclists during the 2012 Tour de France. When she started, she barely believed she could do it but she was committed. She cycled just a couple of miles for the first few days but, then slowly pushed herself and got up to OVER 10 miles!  Not only is she is feeling and looking great, she also finished the entire 100 miles in only 17 days!  Why was this so powerful? For one thing, she had a clear, measureable goal with absolute deadlines.  There was no question that she was making awesome progress. She could literally see mileage climbing every day. When she realized that she could actually excced her expectations, she raised her personal standards and finished early. She also made her progress public. As it turns out, this is huge for most people. We like to share our accomplishments with other people and we hate to share our short falls. In other words, when you know people are watching, you behave differently. For the most part, you behave exactly as you want to world to see you. Since most people value how they are seen by the world, this behavior is generally pretty good for you.  Think about it. How much better  would you eat if you committed to post everything you ate to Facebook? There is no doubt that making your commitments public helps you to keep them. I am so proud of Karen. She has really grown from this experience!

Karen's story is a lot like my kayak trip around Long Island. 

Really? What does Karen's bike challenge have to do with my paddle around Long Island? Everything! This paddle is my challenge! I made it public so that I would train hard and not give up. I gave it deep meaning and purpose by making it a fundraiser. The reason I tell the story of Karen is because I want you to connect to the concept and use it for your own personal Betterness®!  

Most people have a difficult time relating to a nut job like me who kayaks 25 miles on a Sunday morning to train for a 260 mile endurance trek. They don’t see how my journey can be useful to them. It’s just too radical. While I might seem radical, I started out as a 400 pound man. I was sick and tired and woefully out of shape. I can even remember the first day I committed to exercise. I did five minutes on a stationary bike. I did 5 minutes because I could not do 6. Now, I am thought of as amazing and radical. Not bad. The message here is that YOU, yes YOU, can do this. (Whatever your personal “this” is) No matter how bad you think you are, you can be radical or at least remarkable. If that is what you truly want. 

Thinking Better (or at least more positively) will actually improve your life.

Science is now showing that positive thinking not only improves you outlook on life, it actually improves your life! According to the book, "Positivity: Groundbreaking Research Reveals How to Embrace the Hidden Strength of Positive Emotions, Overcome Negativity, and Thrive."

 If you can harness your happiness you can transform your life. Backed up by impressive lab research, positive psychology pioneer Barbara Fredrickson lays out the core truths of positivity—joy, gratitude, serenity, interest, hope, pride, amusement, inspiration, awe and love. While it is easy to see the subject of "positivity" as both disdainful and Pollyannaish, this book keeps it real. Dr. Fredrickson does an impressive job of providing scientific evidence to illustrate her findings. One of the most enlightening notions is how easy it might be to become an "effective optimist." According to the author, simply maintaining a 3:1 positivity ratio of positive thoughts to negative emotions creates a tipping point between languishing and flourishing. The book includes compelling case studies, concrete tips, a Positivity Self Test and a tool kit for decreasing negativity and raising the positivity ratio. Although many of Fredrickson's methods and theories (notes on meditation and karma) will seem familiar to anyone versed in yoga or eastern religions, the scientific foundation of her arguments and additional online resources (www.positivityratio.com) will give you a chance to experiment with positivity and very possibly lead a "better" and richer life.

Have you considered Blogging your weight loss journey?

What the heck is a blog? 

Well, according to the folks over at Google, "A blog is a personal diary. A daily pulpit. A collaborative space. A political soapbox. A breaking-news outlet. A collection of links. Your own private thoughts. Memos to the world. Your blog is whatever you want it to be. There are millions of them, in all shapes and sizes, and there are no real rules. 

In simple terms, a blog is a web site, where you write stuff on an ongoing basis. New stuff shows up at the top, so your visitors can read what's new. Then they comment on it or link to it or email you. Or not.

Why should I have one? 

In his book, Fire Your Therapist, Joe Siegler, MD talks about how helpful it is for coaching clients to start a blog. I think he makes a great point. You can use your blog as a journal to track your progress toward goals and the evolution of your thoughts as you progress through the coaching process. It is an awesome way to keep aware of issues that you want to work on. It will help you keep focused on your goals and help you to track your progress. 

Importance of writing stuff down. 

In a 1953 study conducted at Yale University it was discovered that only 3% of Yale graduates had taken the time to write down their goals. 10 years later, those "goal writers" became far wealthier than the other 97% of the class combined. 

In his book, "What they don't teach you at Harvard Business School" Mark McCormack, talks about survey given to the 1979 graduating class the Harvard Business School's MBA program when they graduated and then again 10 years later. On the initial survey, when asked: "Have you set clear, written goals for your future and made plans to accomplish them?" Only three percent of these graduates had written goals and plans; 13 percent had goals, but they were not in writing; and 84 percent had no specific goals at all. These are HARVARD GRADUATES!! 

The findings of the follow-up survey were shockingly predictable. Ten years later, the members of the class who had goals were earning, on average, twice as much as the ones who had no goals at all. The minority of students that actually wrote down their goals blew their classmates away by earning, an average of ten times as much as the remainder of the class put together. Hmm. I wonder if people that write down their weight loss goals lose 10 times the amount of weight as those who don't? I write my goals down. I have notebooks I refer to daily. I design myself goal forms, send myself emails and stick post-it notes all over the house and, yes, I have a blog. I have not only lost 100% of my excess body weight, but I am successfully maintaining it. I wonder if there is a connection?

The good news is that it is NEVER too late to start. If you really want to accomplish something write it down. If it is worth doing, it is worth making the contract. If you are not ready to write the contract, you are not ready to accomplish the goal. 

Why not write in a book, on piece of paper, on post-it note or on the bathroom mirror? 

While it really does not matter where you write your goals, aspirations, thoughts, affirmations and accomplishments, your blog is marvel of technology. Blogging is about more than just putting your thoughts on the web. It's about connecting with and hearing from anyone who cares about you. With a blog, you control who can read and write to your blog — let just a few friends, your coach or the entire world see what how you are approaching Betterness!

It is not only a tool to write down your goals, track your progress it can even help you to be accountable to your coach. When you set up your blog, you decide who can read and who can write to your blog. I use a group blog with multiple authors as a communication tool for my group coaching. If you want to keep it private, you can create a private blog as your online space for collecting news, links, and ideas, to keep to yourself or share with as many readers as you want.

As for accountability, you can set it up so that every time you post an entry, your coach gets an email, or not. You can even set it so other people in your support network know when you are writing, or not. You get to decide how you set it up. No matter what though, you will never have to worry about forgetting your goal sheet or journal when you and your coach meet. If your coach has access to the internet (and you give him or her permission) they will be able to see your blog. 


Of course, Facebook is an awesome tool for this kind of accountability as well. For some people, this is the best way to communicate with their world. The problem is that Facebook may be a little too public. You can set up your blog so that it is between just you and your best supporters. 

Ok, how do I get one of these "blog" things? 

Although there are many options for getting a blog, I use a Google service known as blogger. While you certainly can get your blog from any provider, this video will help you get started with Blogger.



Another great tool for staying accountable is an app called http://www.myfitnesspal.com/
It allows you to share your fitness and food logging successes with other users and friends.
According to their website,
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